Here we are, that odd little stunted week before Thanksgiving. Of course we want to work hard and be good citizens, but the holiday approaches. Thoughts of family, mostly. And in my case, the Prellers are a bit scattered these days. Nick down in NYC, drawing the short straw at his new job, asked to work on Wednesday and Friday; we won’t be seeing him this Thanksgiving. Gavin is in France, working on an organic farm, opening his heart and mind to the world. Figuring it out, we hope. And Maggie, our youngest, is back home from her first semester at college.
It can be a lot, college. My wise friend referred to it as “adjustment fatigue.” It’s all new: a roommate, a new town, dorm life, classes, eating in a cafeteria, away from home, all of it. So now for a few days she’s back with us. You think we’re happy, you should see the dog.
Anyway, found this Maggie-centered post from 10 years ago and thought I’d share it again . . . time, it flies.
Lisa went out with Maggie last night to buy a new pair of basketball shoes, as they call ’em these days. Used to be sneakers, but whatever. Maggie was thrilled; she’s very excited about playing hoops on the grades 3/4 travel team. She practiced dribbling all night — in the kitchen, in the living room, wherever it might give me a headache. Lisa and I watched and said, “Good, good, keep at it.”
At bedtime, Maggie asked if she could bring her basketball to bed with her. She wanted to sleep with it. Yeah, sure, knock yourself out, just don’t forget to brush your teeth.
This morning I drove Maggie to school. We were running late. Maggie, of course, wore her spotless new kicks. Just before climbing into the car, she said: “I can run faster now.”
She nodded, smiled. Oh yes.
“Put down your backpack,” I said. “Let me see.”
“Where do you want me to run?”
“I don’t know, across the front lawn to Don’s driveway.”
She walked to the far end of the lawn, methodically got herself into running position, and said, “Tell me when to go.”
“Go,” I said.
She raced across the yard.
“Good,” I said. “Now run back on the street. Let’s see how they do on cement.”
So she did, just as hard and determined as she could.
“Wow, Maggie, that was a lot faster — and I mean a lot. Those are pretty fast shoes.”
She smiled, proud and happy, pleased with her new powers.
Don’t you just love being a parent?